Wednesday, March 08, 2006

"Are you doing anything that night?"


I have a rather unique dilemma. Actually it's not a dilemma since I know what I need to do, but I still feel crappy about it. And it's unique because these things DO NOT EVER happen to me.

Remember Second Date Girl? Well I haven't heard a lot from her since the second date a few weeks ago. I guess the girl's been busy/uninterested and lord knows I've been pursuing other avenues.
And then Second Date Girl emailed me last night. She mentioned wanting to do something on Friday -- a THIRD DATE. Argh! Now I'm going to have to tell her about The Other and that I'd like to be friends. See why I feel crappy? I'm too nice.

In other news, Anne has requested that I spend the entire day of Sunday in bed with her. I just might have to oblige.

5 comments:

Red said...

Wow, look at all the action! J. Wo. is clearly a lesbian good luck charm.

H said...

Why can't you just date multiple people? Or are you looking for a single, exclusive long-term relationship? I don't see why you couldn't totally cash in on your New Year's resolution right now and go on numerous dates. :)

nycrouge said...

While I completely agree and yes there hasn't been any commitment, I just wouldn't feel right. The thing with Anne seems far too intsense for the casual and I wouldn't want to lead Second Date Girl on.

That said, I emailed SDG this morning and was honest with her and said I hoped to be friends. And another thing to keep in mind is that SDG wanted to get together on Friday and there's no way I could see her before going to London on Tuesday.

Far more of an explanation than you probably wanted . . .

J-Wo said...

HAVE I TAUGHT YOU NOTHING?!?

After hours and HOURS of "I'm just living in the moment" and "I'm not going to think about where this thing with Anne might lead", here you are blowing off a perfect opportunity to experience MORE lesbian action.

Sigh. Get the U-Haul.

nycrouge said...

Sigh.

I probably was a bit hasty.